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Healing Through Divorce with Krissy Heberlig -- Episode 005
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Healing Through Divorce with Krissy Heberlig -- Episode 005

"When someone shows you where you fall on their priority list, believe them."

Krissy Heberlig is a non-profit program manager and single mom of three. When I was a teenager, Krissy led the youth choir at my church and she’s been a friend-mentor to me for over two decades. In this episode we talked about:

  • double standards for men and women around infidelity and divorce and how they have affected her

  • her divorces paving the way for healing

  • facing unhealthy behaviors and patterns, repeating patterns until she learned the lessons she needed to

  • unlearning “If I was just {fill in the blank, calm, pretty, good, etc.) enough, he would’ve stayed”

  • discovering her authenticity on a camping trip

  • how her second marriage became more difficult as she healed and ultimately taught her to trust what folks’ behaviors say about their priorities

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About Our Guest

Krissy Heberlig

Krissy Heberlig has three kids. They’re 22, 20, and 9. She lives in Pennsylvania with her cats, bunny, and goldfish and works at the local office of a regional non-profit in environmental and nature conservation. She’s been on her healing journey for over two decades, and it’s taken many twists and turns.

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